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Assalammualaikum.

Weakness.

I have my own weakness. I am not confident in myself, always afraid of future and past, have uninvited sickness, have bad habits and many more. But I try to handle it. I try by getting involved in many activities that I shouldn’t and cant face it. But as I believe that mind set is the king of our confident, I try mind setting it. I get involved in sports although I have asthma and lack of red blood cell (I forgot its name) that can make me easily tired and always bergantung with medicine that make my body sakit. I get involved in persatuan that make me as their president although I has least confident infront of people. But I manage to handle it. Step by step. Although the beginning I fail, but now I can feel that it has been handled. There’s no one in this earth is perfect. Including me nor you. Everyone has their own weakness. Whether they choose to hid it or handle it. Who handle it is the smarter, but who hid it is the dumber. So this is my advice, if you don’t like it, do handle your weakness. By that, you can be more confident and grateful in your life. If you fail, stand back. Do it again. In shaa allah Allah will help you handle it. Jangan lupa term ni, “Setiap apa yang kita buat hanyalah untuk allah” dan “Mind set itu adalah kunci kepada diri kita. Yang berkenaan mind set tu mesti tak jelas kan kenapa. Haha. Meh I terangkan sedikit before I end this post. For me, kelemahan tu datang bila kita set kan dalam mind kita bahawa kita tak boleh buat sesuatu perkara. Jadi, bila kita nak handle our weakness, we should mind setting back our mind that we can do those things. And with Allah’s permission, in shaa allah we can handle it. Faham tak term ni ? Hahahaha. Kalau tak faham juga boleh lah bertanya ya. In shaa allah I will jelaskan lebih lanjut berkenaan mind set tu.

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Assalammualaikum,

Luahan perasaan ke mengumpat ?

For me, mengumpat/Ghibah is something kinda like a conversation or activity about someone at their back. Bad or Good ? Opkos lah bad thing.  Kalau guna pak cik google, we can find variety maksud mengumpat ni. Dari Wikipedia lah blogspot lah macam macam ada. Semua ada smartphone or any gajet that has internet kan ? Cuba try google. Hahaha. Pak cik google ada bagitahu salah satu maklumat yang dia ada. Dia cakap ada segelintir mengumpat yang dibenarkan di dalam islam. Kebanyakannya adalah untuk mendapatkan keadilan atau menjadikan tauladan. Tapi bagaimana pula kalau kita cakap something berkenaan seseorang itu but not for membela diri nor menjadikan tauladan ? It more like luahan ketidakpuashatian tentang seseorang ? Kalau dah berbicara berkenaan ketidakpuashatian opkos lah kandungan dia talk about keburukan someone tu. Perkara ni dikategorikan sebagai mengumpat juga ke ? Kalau mengadu tu pula macam mana ? Eh jap. Mengadu dengan luahan perasaan tu sama je kan ? Hahahaha. Why im asking this ? Because in our country or maybe our world nowdays has talk about people without rasa bersalah and when the pendengar tu said “Ish kita dah mengumpat orang lah Astarghfirulahhalazim” then the pentukang cerita tu will say “Eh mana ada mengumpat. Ni luahan perasaan lah. Aku tak puas hati” or “Aku nak mengadu je bukan mengumpat”. I think almost everybody pernah buat or lalui benda ni kan ? Aku pun pernah laluinya that’s why im asking is this kind of conversation dikategorikan sebagai mengumpat ? Sebab bila kita mengumpat kan kita dapat dosa. Dan if I not mistaken (kalau salah sila betulkan), Antara sumbangan dosa yang mengalakkan manusia masuk neraka ialah dosa mengumpat. Yelah kita kan bila dah bercakap tu tak ingat dosa pahala. We can fluently talk about someone one by one. Daripada satu cerita tetiba jadi banyak cerita. Daripada pasal seorang terus jadi berorang orang. Bertambah tambah lah dosa kita kan ? So aku risau. Im afraid. Siapa je nak masuk neraka kan ? Want to change. It hard. But at least I can try kan ? Jom sama sama hindarkan diri daripada perlakuan tak matang ni J